Hindsight is a Wonderful Thing
Have you looked back on events in hindsight and regretted you made the wrong choices?
It is easy to regret what we can't change. Past mistakes linger in the mind and affect the present and future.
The amount of times people get stuck in destructive behaviour patterns and blame past mistakes for everything that's wrong in their lives never cease to sadden and astound me. Unless a crime has been committed there's no valid reason to not forgive the person one used to be and move forward.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing. It takes us back to who we used to be and reason we acted like we did. The problem is we can't go back and change anything. The only thing we're capable of is to learn from the past and look forward. Humans aren't perfect.
Do you blame yourself for past actions and decisions, thinking they're the reason life turned our different to what you imagined and planned?
Don't.
Life is too precious to waste on what might have been. Live yours well and cherish the good stuff.
Hélene x