Surround Yourself With the Best People

Have you thought about how much having the right people in your life matters?

I can tell you it’s Hugely important to have kind and supportive friends and family who root for you when things are good and bad. I’m not talking about ‘yes people’ whose main purpose is to be on your side because they want something from you.
No. I mean people who Really Get you and understand what you’re going through.
People/friends/family who hold your back when in tough times and tell you the Truth about things you are struggling with and need an honest opinion of.

I’ve encountered numerous people who for some reason feel obliged to cope with other people’s rude behaviour and exploitation of them. Children who blame their parents for everything that’s wrong in their lives, siblings who want to have a relationship despite treating you badly and, of course, ex partners who feel the need to badmouth each other.

LIFE IS SPECIAL WHEN WE HAVE THE RIGHT PEOPLE TO TURN TO, CARE FOR AND LEAN ON.

Many years ago, I tried so hard to have a good and honest relationship with someone I really cared about and was there for all the time, through thick and thin so to speak. Years later, I realised they never gave a damn about me, only my support in a difficult time and when they didn’t need me anymore felt the need to badmouth me and said vicious things about me that were completely untrue. It Hurts when we discover people we trusted only used us so Be Aware that someone you view as your friend might not live up to your expectations and deserve your friendship and trust.

Time Means Nothing, Only Character. I’ve spent too much time on people who weren’t worthy of my kindness and support and stick with those who Truly care about me and are honest and supportive.

I’ve got wonderful friends I’ve known all my life so far and people who recently came into my life. The ones I appreciate most are those who stood and stand by me in bad and good times.

I wish you a wonderful Summer.

Much love, Hélene